Karaniwang dahilan ng alitan ng mag bf/gf o mag-asawa? Kailangan natin malaman para mas alagaan pa natin ang relationship natin sa ating special person, upang hindi na ito humantong sa hiwalayan. Kung maghihiwalay ano naman ang mga consideration para gawin ito. Any recommendation or comment from our expect adviser here? Salamat po. Tulad na dati para sa kaalaman ng marami.

hmmm...chico, malalim na topic to ah...

but since i'm in a relationship right now...long term relationship...
in a few months from now, we'll be celebrating our 8th year anniversary...
and we're still going stronger...

we've been thru a lot...

Take note of this:
"Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you, but trusting them not to!" .

One common problem is:
Infidelity

Trust is an essential element to any relationship...
Once that trust has been abused it takes a special couple to be able to find their way back...

"Books, places, amusements, people - how meaningless they become when we suspect that the person we love loves someone else!"

How do we handle infidelity? I have to remind you all that everyone is capable of doing this...

In all cases, open communication with your partner...
is extremely important and will provide the most effective solutions...
both of you should honestly evaluate this questions...

1. What do you really want?
What are your true intentions?

2. Evaluate the other relationship.
What is the person like as a partner?
Is there a possibility of a lasting relationship?
Decide on whether it is a good relationship or not.
Was it worth it?

3. What does your current partner want?
What are your current partner's true intentions?
What do they really want in a relationship?

4. Evaluate the current relationship.
Is this a good relationship?
Does it fit the description of the kind of relationship you want?
Do they really love you and can you see a future?
Was it something in the relationship that caused your partner to stray?

5. Make a final choice.
At this point you and your partner has to make a final choice...
If you both decide to stay together...
From that point on, you both are effectively starting again in the relationship...
A broken trust is hard to mend, but not impossible.
As long as you are completely honest with each other and work at the relationship...
you can overcome any hurdle that crosses your path.

There's no perfect relationship...
Sometimes it was just a trial for both of you...
If your partner has been weak to temptations...
Then, be strong for him/her...
Fight for him/her...
We should not judge or condemn the one we love...
We help them...we accept them...with their strengths...and with their weaknesses as well...

And that's the reason we're (my boyfriend & I) still together...
Because we both knew we can't live without each other...
Maybe we can...but we don't want to try...

You can’t always control your heartstrings when they are being pulled in a different direction...
But, you can make sure you are keeping your love affairs ethical and distinguished...
something severely lacking in relationships in this era.

I believe one of the best ways to be happy...
is to know you’ve taken preventative measures against unhappiness...
Knowing how you or your partner will behave in a certain situation gives you a certain sense of confidence and...
freedom in your relationship that many don’t experience.

Do NOT become involved with another person if you are currently committed to someone else...
Don’t bend the situation to justify your actions...
If the person you are with expects you to be with only them, then do that...

If you become interested in someone else:

1. Cease all contact with them until you have resolved the problems with your current relationship.

2. Find out why your interest towards your current partner has waned.
a. Are you spending enough time with each other?
b. Are you looking for an escape or a start over type relationship because of too much bad history?
c. Has an outside interest allowed you to think less of your partner?

3. Decide whether this is repairable.
a. Have you talked about your problems?
b. Can you find a solution through an outside source?

4. If repairable, do what is necessary to properly fix your current problems and...
take measures to avoid them from happening again...


5. If not, repairable, leave your current relationship.
a. Do not see the person you were interested in for at least 30 days after you are on your own again.
b. If you still feel you may be truly interested in starting a relationship with this person make sure you take things slowly and that you have truly discovered what factors contributed to the demise of your previous relationships. You don’t need to keep making the same mistakes repetitively.

Hope this help...this has helped me a lot...

wow, mahusay at maganda ang explanation, marami talaga tayo matutunan dito. thanks for sharing butterfly and Good luck sa inyo ni bf,

chicodj wrote:wow, mahusay at maganda ang explanation, marami talaga tayo matutunan dito. thanks for sharing butterfly and Good luck sa inyo ni bf,

thanks chico!!!